You're flagged...no really you are...

Ok so I had an issue a few months ago. These two clowns who my boyfriend knows came into my bar and drank a bunch and then proceeded to ask around the bar to see if anyone could score them some blow. Ok whatever you want to do on your own time is fine, but don't do it right in front of me and jeopardize my job ok? So my boyfriend being the idiot he is, decided to help them out. Long story short he went outside to deal with the guy selling it and the two kids in the bar think they're getting robbed so they start throwing a fit, ran outside and scared the dealer off. Then they start threatening my boyfriend's life. F-off is what i said to them and told all of them to leave. As I was kicking them out the back door the one short little red headed shit called me a stupid bitch. Fine with me, don't ever come back! And thats how it ended...until this Sunday night. I'm working and the one guy (not the little shit the other one) comes in with a guy I've never seen and they started drinking. They weren't causing any problems so I was fine with it. But then the little red head shows up and I told him to turn around and leave I didn't want him there. His friend asks me why i did that and i told him that his friend had called me a bitch. He then replies, "you are a bitch". To which I told him that if he wants to be like that he can leave and stay the hell out of the bar cause he's flagged. He proceeds to call me a bunch of names and demand the money back for his beer blah blah blah. You know what, if you're going to call your bartender names be prepared. Especially if they are not having a good night. Really, I don't care about you, I don't care about your money. I want my business to go smooth and not have any problems. And if that means kicking douche bags like that out fine. Don't ever argue with a bartender who flags you. There are plenty of other bars to go to. Let it go.
Then I had the pleasure of witnessing a woman get flagged last night by my co-worker/brother billy. This woman walks into the bar and says give me a miller lite draft bitch. Billy turned right around and told her to leave. This woman decided to put up a fight. "Well I am neighbors to your owners son and he'll be hearing about this....blahblahblah" You know what lady I don't care who you are or who you live next to. You are being disrespectful to me? I don't go into your job and treat you like shit so I'd expect you not to do the same. People are so goddamned stupid and inconsiderate sometimes. So moral of the story, respect your bartenders and if you do get flagged, move on to the next establishment or go home and go to bed.